Art of Letting Go...

How do you let go of a love that you ever wanted from the start? How do you handle a situation where in you need to let go of someone special? We are all expected to loved and be loved... but are we willing to let it slip away even it feels so right on us?

It can hurt us so bad...that we are willing to do everything to get love back. We can do anything, any means, the question is... "is that someone aslo willing to go back? or you are just holding on to someone that is also holding on to someone that is also holding on to someone else?"

Reality really hurts. We begun to think that life was so unfair, but no matter how hard it is to let go, we just have to, because if that's love's really destined for us, in time, it will be back. You will then realize that lot of people cares and loves you more than he did.

By time you learn to move on and let go, you'll find life more satisfying... you'll find many reasons why you should go on living. Because when you are stock with the pain you can do nothing but cry, and hurt yourself more, and if you have finally moved on, without bitterness in your heart, you'll be thanksful... because you had him once and he somehow make your life filled with love and joy. Or if not... you can clearly understand why did it have to end. If your path has cross again, you can learn to forgive and start another thing called friendship.

Things would be better again, even if you both, are taking seperate paths, life is still full of mysteries, you can never know what's really for you unless you have the courage to take the road of life. It is still great to love and get hurt than never loved and be loved at all. Take life slowly, never rush love because it will always find a way to reach you, it would always fall into the right place and time, and that no matter how painful your past love is, it doesnt mean it would always be like that. Remember that no matter how hard you hold on into someone, if it wasn't meant for you, it just wouldn't be.

Pain is part of loving... wihtout it, you'll never know that oyu are true, that you are not as numb as he thought, and when you find someone new, make sure to leave something for yourself. So when things are turning out sour, you will not be hurt badly, and won't take you eternity just to let go. Learning the true meaning of love letting go, moving on and being strong, would eventually make us a better person.

I have moved on and happy right now, cause I have learned the art of letting go...

Art of Letting Go... Again?

There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never meant to leave behind. But keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world, it's the beginning of new life. You never leave someone behind, you take part of them with you and leave a part of yourself behind. I made a choice to finally go because I cannot stand the pain. It's time for my last tear to fall and me to smile again. I've learned that goodbyes will always hurt, pictures can never replace being there memories forget the heard times, words can never replace feelings.

Sometimes you have to let go of the one you love to find out if there is really something there. Sometimes you have to let go of someone to see if there's really anything there to hold on to. Sometimes you won't let go of love. More times, love won't let go of you. Maybe some people are just passing through. It's like some people justcome through our lives to bring us soemthingt: a gift, a blessing, a lesson we need to learn, and that's why they're here... you'll have that gift forever.

I dont want to leave but sometimes it's better to go. Somehow I know we'll meet again. Not sure quite where and I dont know just when. You're in my heart, so until then... wanna smile, wanna cry, saying goodbye.

Maybe some people just are not meant to be in our lives forever. I cannot erase the past, but I must let it go.

Thanks for everything, I will miss you!!!

How Can I Let Go?

I pretended to be happy even though i felt breaking inside. I tried to fake smile but gloom was written all over my eyes. It is hard to see someone I use to love moving on with his life while i'm all alone, left behind. I used to think that he was the one for me, we're two different people enticed into the magical power of love.

Everyday was so wonderful, as if loved smiled at us. Everything seem to be perfect but why did things suddenly go wrong? Things change. He started to ignore me. he never listened. he never cared. I was crying out loud but he was too deaf to hear it. My world crumbled upon seeing things fell apart but he was drifting away into his own world where i was forbidden to go. I was left hanging while he was souring high not minding me at all. It is hard to let go of someone i promised to love forever, but how can i hold on to a relationship not knowing where to go or who to follow?

I've already mastered the trades in the game of love except the art of letting go which makes me a neophyte. My knees weaken and my heart beats like a crazy tattoo everytime we cross each other's path. There's that look in his soulful eyes which resolves my defenses and make me fall all over again. I tried to regain my composure by convincing myself that it is over even it deliberately breaks my heart into pieces. Inside i am hoping that it would still be us again but i know it will be a shattered ilusion.

Letting go means you love the best, they say... but how can i let go if loving him is the only thing i've wanted?

I LOVE YOU.... GOODBYE!!!!

love is patient, kind. It never gets jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense. It is not sinful.

-- from the Book of Corinthians

There is one happiness in life... it is "to love and be loved." To love is the most wonderful thing a person can ever experience in life, a moment that lasts forever and yet, the hardest part of loving is to know when to let go and knowing when to say goodbye. Letting go doesn't mean you have to stop loving them, it only means that you let the person find his happiness... expecting nothing in return.

I wanted to say "I would like to spend the rest of my life with you".

But oftentimes, we say goodbye to the one we love even we dont want to, not because we stop caring them, but sometimes GOODBYE is the painful way of saying I LOVE YOU.

It is hard to let go someone who has touched your life, but it hurts more to let go someone who has never been yours yet, changed your life the most.

Now i realized how hard to let go someone whom you loved the most but have to let you go!

Thank you for making me a part of your life.

I LOVE YOU GOODBYE!!!


-- created while listening to Celine Dion's "I Love You Goodbye"