Saturday, November 29, 2008

Art of Letting Go...

How do you let go of a love that you ever wanted from the start? How do you handle a situation where in you need to let go of someone special? We are all expected to loved and be loved... but are we willing to let it slip away even it feels so right on us?

It can hurt us so bad...that we are willing to do everything to get love back. We can do anything, any means, the question is... "is that someone aslo willing to go back? or you are just holding on to someone that is also holding on to someone that is also holding on to someone else?"

Reality really hurts. We begun to think that life was so unfair, but no matter how hard it is to let go, we just have to, because if that's love's really destined for us, in time, it will be back. You will then realize that lot of people cares and loves you more than he did.

By time you learn to move on and let go, you'll find life more satisfying... you'll find many reasons why you should go on living. Because when you are stock with the pain you can do nothing but cry, and hurt yourself more, and if you have finally moved on, without bitterness in your heart, you'll be thanksful... because you had him once and he somehow make your life filled with love and joy. Or if not... you can clearly understand why did it have to end. If your path has cross again, you can learn to forgive and start another thing called friendship.

Things would be better again, even if you both, are taking seperate paths, life is still full of mysteries, you can never know what's really for you unless you have the courage to take the road of life. It is still great to love and get hurt than never loved and be loved at all. Take life slowly, never rush love because it will always find a way to reach you, it would always fall into the right place and time, and that no matter how painful your past love is, it doesnt mean it would always be like that. Remember that no matter how hard you hold on into someone, if it wasn't meant for you, it just wouldn't be.

Pain is part of loving... wihtout it, you'll never know that oyu are true, that you are not as numb as he thought, and when you find someone new, make sure to leave something for yourself. So when things are turning out sour, you will not be hurt badly, and won't take you eternity just to let go. Learning the true meaning of love letting go, moving on and being strong, would eventually make us a better person.

I have moved on and happy right now, cause I have learned the art of letting go...

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