Friday, October 12, 2007

My Greatest Dilemma

Why do most of us fall for a person because of the good physical traits? Well, perhaps because it is the first thing we see, therefore, the first thing we can judge. People often equate good physical traits to good human character. But, is it really right to formulate such equation?

From a recent experience, again, I was able to prove that it does not mean that if you look good, you also have a good heart. I was able to have this chance to know this someone, quite good-looking, but then, this person is so much of a liar… masyadong pang bolero… gustong manggamit ng ibang tao para panakip-butas. In short, this person is good-looking only in the outside, not in the inside.

I hope that we all realize that keeping standards, especially physical traits, in searching for a partner is not really that bad. But bear in mind that a good face will never make you forever happy. A good heart will do that for you. Look on the inside and not on the outside. Do not be fooled by what you see. Most often than not, good things are concealed by the not-so-good objects. Like a diamond among the coal.

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